You’re asking yourself:
Am I overreacting, or is something actually off?

You're replaying the arguments in your head, trying to understand how things got this bad, wondering why it always ends the same: with you feeling like the problem.

You're Googling “communication tools” at midnight with tears in your eyes, hoping maybe this will finally fix it.

But no matter what you do, no matter how hard you try, nothing changes.

That’s because the problem isn’t your ability to communicate or resolve conflict. And it’s not your partner’s mental health or painful past.

It’s that you’ve stopped trusting the one thing that always knew what was wrong: your gut.

You weren’t born confused. You were born with instincts that told you what felt good and what didn’t. But over time, that inner wisdom was chipped away—by being told you were “too sensitive” and taught that love meant putting others first, no matter what.

So now you look for answers outside of yourself when the real solution is learning to trust yourself again.

I created Relationship Reset to help those who’ve become disoriented and confused rebuild unshakeable trust in their own worth and wisdom—so they can finally have the safe, lasting love they’ve been trying so hard to find.

In just eight, short weeks you’ll…

✨Understand the difference between healthy and unhealthy love, so you can stop wondering if you’re expecting too much and start trusting when something doesn’t feel right

✨Spot red flags early—even the ones most people miss—so you can so you can protect yourself before you get hurt

✨Identify if you’re experiencing normal relationship ups and downs or toxic cycles that lead nowhere, so you can decide what’s worth working through and what’s not

✨Place the responsibility where it belongs—without guilt—so you can stop carrying blame that’s not yours and finally start healing

“Never again will I keep myself in situations where I am disrespected, dismissed, or mistreated.”

“I finally know that not liking something is reason enough to ask for it to stop. I’ll never ignore my gut again.”

“I knew it! I knew something was wrong! It’s such a relief to know that I was right.”

Can you imagine yourself…

✨saying “I’m not okay with that” and going to sleep in peace instead of trying to get them to understand all night long

✨refusing to continue the conversation when they try to bring up your past mistakes to avoid taking responsibility for theirs

✨ignoring a text that would have guilted you and going on happily with your day instead of engaging in a text battle

✨watching them sulk or pout because you said “no,” and feeling zero urge to fix their mood or explain yourself

✨catching yourself explaining your boundaries in long paragraphs, then stopping mid-text, deleting it, and realizing: I don’t owe this to someone who doesn't respect me

How we are going to get there together…

  • Before the group begins, you will get 1:1 time with me to talk about your specific needs. You can share as little or as much as you want, ask questions about the group, and get to know me a little as well. We will make sure you are ready for and comfortable with the group structure and processes.

  • Along with the program, you will receive a free copy of my book, Abuse Dynamics 101. This will be our ‘session guide’ as topics will come directly from its chapters. This book is filled with professional and personal experience vital to your journey. And you’ll be able to have it as a permanent resource even after our time together is over.

  • Starting July 8th, the group and I will meet weekly from 6:30pm-8pm CST on Zoom. Kensie to unpack and deepen each week’s topic (from the assigned chapter). There will be time for group members to share questions, thoughts, struggles, and more.

  • At the end of every week’s session, there will be opportunity for a couple group members to be coached by me on their specific situation. You’ll be able to get clarity and support on the things you are going through right now so you can better apply what you’ve been learning.

  • You’ll be amongst up to twelve others who also get it. You’ll finally have friends who won’t further your confusion by saying “that’s just how relationships are”. You’ll never be told to “just leave.” You won’t be shamed for staying. You’ll be supported, heard, and empowered as you hear everyone else say “me too”.

Relationships don’t have to be confusing.
But the reset must start with you.

The most secure relationships come from having clarity inside.
The safest love is built when you know how to trust yourself.

Are you ready to reset?

Starts: July 8
Time: Tuesdays, 6:30–8:pm CST
Cost: $180 (includes book)
Group Size: Limited to 12
Registration Closes: June 30